Frequently Asked Questions

What is sex therapy?
Sex therapy is counselling that supports individuals, couples, or groups with psychological, interpersonal, or physical sexual concerns. Sex therapy does not involve physical touching.

Why see a sex therapist?
Many people see a sex therapist to discuss their experiences and concerns in a safe, non-judgemental environment—whether those concerns relate directly to sex or to broader sex-related matters. Sex therapists have specialist training in how psychological, social, and physiological factors affect sexuality and sexual functioning.   

Do you offer relationship counselling?   Yes, you are welcome to attend as a couple or group. If you feel it would be beneficial, partners are also welcome to book individual sessions alongside this process. Relationship therapy always aims to be a safe, unbiased space where we work collaboratively towards your goals. Please note: we are unable to provide counselling where there is current family violence in the relationship.   

What happens in a therapy session?
It can feel nerve-wracking to see a counsellor—let alone a sex therapist—so we welcome you to move at whatever pace feels comfortable. The first session focuses on getting to know you, your history, your experiences, and your goals for therapy.

We utilise psychosexual interventions to support you in reaching where you want to be. For relationship counselling, we view the relationship itself as the client and draw from a range of therapeutic approaches. Depending on your preference, this may include small homework tasks. Homework is entirely optional, and there is never any pressure to complete it.

What areas do you work in?

We work across a broad range of areas, including:

• All forms of intimate relationships

• Open relationships and polyamory

• Intimacy issues and developing relationship skills

• Sexual identity and gender identity exploration

• Coming out

• Internet dating and hooking up

• BDSM and kink

• Workplace issues, stigma, and discrimination

• Adjusting to an HIV diagnosis or other STIs

• Recovery from sexual assault and abuse

How many sessions will I need?

Sometimes a single session is enough to resolve a specific difficulty, while more complex concerns require multiple sessions. Short- to mid-term counselling is suitable for most people, and some clients prefer returning for a check-in every six or twelve months to maintain their relationship and well-being. After our first session, We can give you an indication of what might be required, but you ultimately decide how many sessions you attend.

Do you offer counselling that isn't sexually related?

We support people dealing with:

• Trauma, grief, and loss

• Depression, anxiety, and mental health concerns

• Substance dependency

• Family violence

• Psychosocial stressors

• Family and relationship issues

• Low self-esteem and body image concerns

• Financial stress

Does my information remain confidential?
We are legally and ethically bound to keep your information private and confidential. However, there are limited exceptions where confidentiality must be broken. These include:

• If failure to disclose information would place you or another person at serious risk of harm

• If records are subpoenaed by a court of law

• If you give prior written permission to share information with another professional (such as a GP or lawyer)

• If you explicitly consent to sharing information with a designated third party (such as a partner or family member)

Do you work under a Code of Ethics?

Yes. We are bound by the Code of Ethics of the Society of Australian Sexologists Ltd, the Code of Ethics of the PACFA and the Health Complaints Act 2016 (Vic) Code of Conduct.

Are your counsellors registered and accredited in Australia?
Yes. Alex is a Certified Practicing Counsellor accredited with PACFA (Psychotherapy and Counselling Federation of Australia) holding postgraduate qualifications in sexology and counselling.

How much does a session cost?

• Individual sessions: $165

• Couples/group sessions: $200

Payment can be made via cash, direct deposit, or credit card.

Do I need a referral?
No referral is necessary. You can book directly at any time. 

Do you offer rebates?
Unfortunately, Medicare rebates are not currently available for these counselling services.

Do you work with NDIS participants?
Yes. counselling can be provided under NDIS funding for participants who are self-managed or plan-managed, provided you have funding allocated under Improved Daily Living. The rate aligns with NDIS pricing support ($156.16 per hour) and invoices can be issued directly to you or your plan manager.

What are your open hours:

• Monday: 11am to 8pm

• Tuesday: By request only

• Wednesday: 11am to 8pm

• Thursday: 11am to 8pm

• Friday: 10am to 5pm

Where are you located?

In-person sessions are available in Brunswick (Melbourne Inner North) at private consulting rooms near public transport (such as Sydney Road trams and Jewell Train Station). 

We also offer Telehealth consultations across Australia.